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The City / Naseeha Corner / Re: Husband often doesn't pray?
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on: December 25, 2007, 05:57:47 PM
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Started by Anonymous | Last post by peaceman
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[slm]
Honorable sister,
You are doing the right thing by reminding your husband to pray, and rather it is obligatory for you to dissuade your husband from commiting sins, by skipping prayers. Skipping prayers is considered to be a very big sin that many scholars say bring a person out of the fold of Islam into disbelief. It is encumbant on all muslims to encourage each other on what is just and right, not encourage sins and wrong.
You should also try to relight the enthusiasm for your husband to learn the Islamic knowledge, that reverts have when they first accept Islam.
And Allah knows.
[wlm]
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The City / Naseeha Corner / Re: Child custody question?
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on: December 25, 2007, 05:24:31 PM
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Started by Anonymous | Last post by peaceman
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[slm]
The order for the custody is found in the book Minhaj-al-Muslim, written by the honorable shaikh and imam of masjid nabawi in Madina in his time, Al-Jazairy, May Allah have mercy on him.
It is important that everyone make an effort to learn from the honorable scholars of our religion, and brush their personal opinions and views aside.
Again, like mentioned previously, after the child reaches the age of discernment (7 years), the child chooses who to stay with.
The scholars say, according to the hadith of prophet Muhammed [saw], "The mother has the most right for custody of her children, except if she remarries."
For the question, "Does the mother lose the custody of her children if she remarries?", I apologize that I do not know the answer from the sayings of the scholars.
And Allah knows.
[slm]
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The City / Bebzi Stand / Re: SUGGESTIONS FOR NEW BOARD!!! I want to hear from you!!!
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on: December 25, 2007, 09:14:29 AM
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Started by Jannah | Last post by rahma
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AA, everyone.
I would like to see a board entitled "Stupid Questions, Smart Answers". So many times someone says to me or I hear a stupid question like, for example, "why do you Muslims like blowing things up?" or "Don't you get hot wearing that "thing" on your head?". My mind goes blank and I can't think up a decent reply. Or else I finally think of an answer later on at two o'clock in the morning. Or maybe you can call the board "I Shoulda Said..."
It would just be nice to have a place where people can put all their smart replies so other Muslims can be ready with quick comebacks whenever they are confronted with stupidity.
Just a thought.
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The City / Bebzi Stand / Re: SUGGESTIONS FOR NEW BOARD!!! I want to hear from you!!!
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on: December 25, 2007, 07:53:16 AM
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Started by Jannah | Last post by Jannah
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[slm]
I don't like change as much as the next person. But imagine where we would be if we didn't change? Remember the board 10 years ago with its threaded black and pink inline links at a hosted site? Every message had to be approved and there were maybe 8 people posting. And remember the board where every month we had to post fixing the board threads to fix the date and time. And remember every successive board (the blue, the olive, the purple and green) and how it changed and hopefully improved? It's been tough, we've weathered many a fight, crashes, an occasional hack, and many people coming in and out but we still survived. We need change to keep things fresh and not stagnant. There is such a thing as becoming too comfortable. Lately it's been feeling like the only people who post are me and a few others, and occasionally someone may comment on anonymous's problems. I mean what's the point of that? The Madina is NOT a blog. It is supposed to be a community. Everyone needs to participate and share. Everyone needs to feel like they know each other and that we're helping each other, that we're friends, fellow brothers and sisters. It should be a place where if we traveled we could meet and visit each other's houses, that we could attend each other's weddings. Not that we are nameless, faceless, anonymous posters. In business there is a concept called synergy, that a group is more than it's parts. When the Madina is together and everyone participates and contributes it is way more than any blog, website, or facebook. Hopefully we can recreate that on the new Madina. [ia]
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The City / Naseeha Corner / Re: Advice needed on divorce
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on: December 25, 2007, 04:19:03 AM
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Started by a_lina | Last post by maryam
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[slm]
My beloved sister you felt hurt with my post, please do not mind me, my response as I stated earlier was due to my just taking your few typed words as they were, I do not deliberately set out to hurt you, I have encountered some posts I believe some people put out just to test one's response, maybe that also affected my response.
I have prayed for you and that is what is most important, and may Allah accept your prayers, mine and other muslims who have prayed for you in this trying times, let us also pray for that man who seems to have brought you into this situation. We are muslims and may Allah help us perfect our faith.
I went through your profile, I could not find your e-mail address, please if you could send one to my mail box, I will appreciate, we have more to share. 
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The City / Bebzi Stand / Re: SUGGESTIONS FOR NEW BOARD!!! I want to hear from you!!!
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on: December 24, 2007, 08:32:31 PM
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Started by Jannah | Last post by Achee
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[slm] I m so lately, but Eid Mobarak 2 all....
I would likeeeeeeeeeeee, have, A Forum (0ne) thread for help and tipps stuff like, about Computer,Internet,Webdesign,Graphicdesign,Video,Audio,Hardware,Software etc.......
its to much wish, i guess 
[slm]
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The City / Bebzi Stand / Re: SUGGESTIONS FOR NEW BOARD!!! I want to hear from you!!!
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on: December 24, 2007, 02:28:44 AM
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Started by Jannah | Last post by BrKhalid
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Asalaamu Alaikum [beardbro]
maybe you could have a forum "too grown up for the madina" forum for bhudda type people (i.e. people who got married) since all the married people who were once interesting disappear or become boring..
Bro..I am so showing your future wife that quote when you get married 
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